Separation Mediation in Denver, CO
A Center for Divorce Solutions understands that children are central in a divorce and that the spillover from a separation affects them in profound ways. We work to make child support mediation matters simple for divorcees in Denver, Arvada, and Lakewood, CO, through child custody mediation and similar services. Through amicable resolutions, we get parents on the same page about their rights and responsibilities, and make sure the transition to co-parenting is as simple as possible for the children.

Mediation for Divorces
Getting married is easy – getting divorced not so much. There is lots of emotion, multiple documents, a myriad of decisions and dozens of opinions from family and friends. You know best how you want your future to look, so take control of the decision-making process with help from a divorce mediation expert who will make certain you understand your rights.
Parenting Plan Mediation
It is possible to dissolve the marital relationship, but it is neither possible nor desirable to dissolve the parental relationship between parents. Creating a parenting plan with a parental responsibility mediator that works for the parents and is in the best interests of the children is the best use of child support mediation. They are your children, you know them better than anyone, and you should make the decisions regarding their future. A detailed and very specific plan through responsibility mediation ensures that both parents have clear and realistic expectations of their responsibilities.
Separation Agreements
A major part of a divorce involves the division of assets and debts in an equitable manner. Fear of the future financial picture is an emotional hot button. Knowing your rights is key to making good decisions and analysis of both parties needs helps you create a financial future that allows both parties to move forward. Once you’ve agreed on the asset division, you know what you have to do moving forward.
Documents
Court documents can be daunting! But we’ve completed them thousands of times. Once you’ve made the decisions about parenting and the division of assets and debts, maintenance and other agreements you’ve made during separation mediation, we handle all document preparations needed for the court. You review them, make sure everything is as you want it and then file them with the court.
Post-Decree Assistance
Sometimes things change – career moves, new marriage, the parenting plan you agreed to when your child was two doesn’t quite work with a twelve-year-old. Sometimes there is confusion in interpreting what was going to happen or a disagreement that needs to be resolved. In most cases the court will order couples to post-decree mediation before scheduling a hearing, but oftentimes people choose to come to mediation in the hopes of resolving issues without having to go to court.
FAQ’s
What does a divorce mediator do?
How is mediation different from hiring a divorce lawyer?
Is divorce mediation legally binding?
In our practice, we also work with couples on things that are not legally enforceable by the Courts. For example, a conversation regarding when to introduce your children to people you are dating, or an agreement that you won’t let your children play in homes where guns are present – or issues that will come up, particularly in parenting plans. Setting couples up for successful co-parenting is more than parenting time and child support. We make it a priority to anticipate, discuss and include all appropriate factors in our parenting plans, many of which are above and beyond what the State requires.
How to prepare for divorce mediation?
During your mediation session, your mediator will ground the process by educating you on the guidelines and formulas set out by the state, creating a base of understanding on what can/cannot be negotiated. Your mediator will create a safe, neutral environment where both parties feel comfortable advocating for themselves, often asking questions or making suggestions that move the conversation towards equitable ends. Together, you will make the decisions that will inform the rest of your lives.
How long does divorce mediation take?
Is mediation cheaper than hiring a lawyer?
Can we split the cost of mediation?
Yes. We recommend dividing the cost of mediation or paying with joint funds so that both parties have a vested interest in moving it along.
Can we mediate if we’re not on good terms?
Divorce is one of the most traumatic, stressful, emotionally charged events in one’s life. It is common for couples to get frustrated, emotional or argumentative at various points in the process. Having the space to express emotions through the mediation process often leads to more honest and satisfying agreements. Your mediator is trained to listen and honor your feelings without allowing them to derail the process.
What if my spouse tries to manipulate the process?
Can we do mediation if there has been infidelity?
Yes. Colorado is a ‘no-fault’ state, meaning that the cause of the divorce, including infidelity, has no legal bearing on the settlement.
What if one of us wants to reconcile?
In the State of Colorado, a person can file for and be granted a divorce, regardless of whether both parties want the divorce. This is one aspect of being a ‘no-fault’ state. Upon agreement, you could file for a Legal Separation, which would create a parenting plan and divide your assets and debts. You would then receive a Decree of Legal Separation, and you must wait 6 additional months to convert a Legal Separation to a Dissolution of Marriage. In those six months, you could give yourselves time to reconcile with the help of a marriage counselor. If you agree to give it another chance, your mediator can help you figure out what the two of you will do to move you toward reconciliation – and what are the deal breakers.
What if we disagree on child support?
Can the kids be part of the mediation process?
Can a mediator help divide assets fairly?
What happens to our house in divorce mediation?
How do we handle retirement accounts?
How are alimony/spousal support decisions made?
How do I find a good divorce mediator?
Should our mediator be a lawyer or a therapist?
We recommend doing your research, reading reviews and having an introductory conversation to make sure you feel comfortable with your mediator. This is an intimate, often emotional process and we want you to feel safe and supported every step of the way.
Can I meet with the mediator alone first?
Get in Touch
Questions about responsibility mediation or child custody mediation? Let’s talk – (303) 377-2295